Networking events are not just about collecting business cards; they are about building relationships. Whether you are at a local conference in Vigo or a global summit, the «rules of engagement» in English are designed to make people feel comfortable and curious about what you do.
This week, at The London Eye – English Consultant, we’ll break down the «Networking Cycle» into four simple steps.
1. Breaking the Ice (The Approach)
The hardest part is often just saying the first word. In English, we use «contextual openers»—comments about the shared environment.
- The Event Opener: «What brought you to this event today?» or «Have you seen any interesting speakers so far?»
- The Food/Venue Opener: «The view from here is incredible, isn’t it?» or «I’ve heard great things about this venue.»
- The Direct Approach: «Mind if I join you? I’m [Your Name], by the way.»
2. The Elevator Pitch (The «What do you do?»)
When someone asks «What do you do?», don’t just give your job title. Use the Action + Benefit formula to make it memorable.
- Basic: «I am an IT manager.» (Forgettable)
- Action + Benefit: «I help companies optimize their software so their teams can work more efficiently.» (Interesting!)
Structure: «I [Verb] [Target Audience] to [Solve a Problem].»
3. Active Listening & Follow-up Questions
A great networker listens 70% of the time and talks 30%. Use these phrases to show you are engaged:
- To dig deeper: «That sounds fascinating. How did you get started in that field?»
- To find common ground: «That’s interesting, we’ve actually been facing a similar challenge with…»
- The «Tell me more» phrase: «I’d love to hear more about how you managed that transition.»
4. The Graceful Exit (Moving On)
The «Exit» is the most underrated skill. You don’t want to get «stuck» with one person all night, but you don’t want to be rude.
- The Transition: «It’s been great chatting with you, but I should probably circulate a bit more/say hi to a few more people.»
- The Action Item: «I’d love to continue this conversation later. Do you have a card, or should we connect on LinkedIn?»
- The Polite Closing: «I’ll let you get back to your [drink/colleagues]. It was a pleasure meeting you!»
5. Essential Networking Vocabulary
| Term | Meaning | Example |
| To work the room | To interact with as many people as possible at an event. | «He’s a pro at working the room; he knows everyone here!» |
| Rapport | A close and harmonious relationship. | «We built a great rapport talking about our shared interests.» |
| To follow up | To contact someone after the initial meeting. | «I’ll follow up with an email on Monday morning.» |
| A cold contact | Someone you contact without a prior introduction. | «Networking helps turn cold contacts into warm leads.» |
Your Action Step for this week: Practice your «Action + Benefit» elevator pitch. In the comments, finish this sentence:
«I help [Who you help] to [What problem you solve].»
Example: «I help English students to speak with more confidence and professional precision.»
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